EverAfterWellness on Instagram: "My dad cheated on my mom with his secretary and left her saying she “got too fat for him…” What he really meant? She got older. Her hormones changed. Her body stopped responding the way it did at 25. And instead of compassion, she got blamed. Women are taught to hate their bodies for doing exactly what biology designed them to do. Weight gain after 35 isn’t a moral failure. It’s hormonal. It’s metabolic. It’s stress + insulin + cortisol. My mom didn’t need shame.