Mr.DavMi on Instagram: "1. In 2018, domestic violence expert Dr. Jill Murray revealed a pattern she’d seen in 2,000+ abuse cases: abusers perform a specific test on first dates called “boundary pushing” — they do something mildly inappropriate (touch you longer than comfortable, make slightly cruel “jokes,” ignore a small “no”) and watch your reaction. If you laugh it off or stay quiet, they know you won’t fight back later. 2. Rihanna confirmed this in a 2012 interview about Chris Brown: “On our