5 signs she wasn’t “controlling”… she just didn’t feel safe yet. Sometimes when a woman’s nervous system is stuck in fight-or-flight, it doesn’t look like panic… It looks like nitpicking. Correction. Hyper-awareness. Trying to hold the world together… because inside, she doesn’t feel like she has any control. These are 5 signs her sympathetic nervous system was running the show — not her “controlling personality”: 1. She needed plans… not surprises. Uncertainty spikes adrenaline — so she tried t